Healing the Motherline
Workshop
"Heal generational scars and be the one to change behaviour patterns handed down from your family"
7th September 2-4pm
Online on zoom
Who is this for?
Adult daughters and sons from emotionally unavailable mums (or dad's) who want to solve and understand behaviour patterns that feel related to your childhood experiences that you can not shift
This is for men and women who have started to recognise through therapy, a caring role, a broken relationship or bereavement that there were actually some fundamental gaps in their relationship with their mother, or in your upbringing and you are questioning if you can heal these?
Who is this not for?
Anyone who is not willing to push a little out of their comfort zone
People who are not open to some concepts which may be considered as unscientific or woo woo (even though I can always explain in terms of science if you are willing to be curious)
Do you find yourself
Getting into narcissistic or abusive/emotionally unavailable relationships or relationships with people ‘like’ your mother?
Experiencing difficulty in knowing what you like, what your needs are and who you are?
Do you
Find it difficult to take risks in life?
Feel stuck?
Fear judgement?
People please?
Have anxiety?
Have mental health difficulties in the female lineage of your family?
Have difficulties in the relationship with your own children?
Then this workshop may be just right for you.
✔ Where might your negative self beliefs come from
✔ How you can release negative internal messages
✔ How to forgive yourself
✔ Understand generational messages, loyalties and family impacts on you
✔ Start to become more authentically you.
It's time to stop the cycle of dysfunction of your mother line and family lineage and be the one to make changes.
What you will come away with?
Start to feel like you can actually be you for the first time in your life
Understand who you are and where your boundaries need to be.
Explore your ancestral lines bringing meaning to your life, your behaviours and your struggles
Start to 'get it' and understand the 'why' to how you feel like you do.
I can't wait to facilitate this transformative masterclass with you where you can start you journey of healing from ancestral trauma and your motherline but also find some peace of mind and a sense of empowerment and purpose to your life.
Meet Vanessa
After years of active and chronic addiction I came into recovery in 2001 to be confronted with a whole heap of self love work I needed to do.
I was terrified of judgement and was a chronic people pleaser.
I struggled to take risks as I was worried of failure and what people would think.
My life was limited as a result and I felt frustrated with my inauthenticity.
Following a life transition into running my own business in 2017 (the business of my dreams) I ventured onto a spiritual path which took me to Australia to a retreat last year.
There I connected with some of my lineage. I had always been curious about my grandmother who was perhaps an alcoholic (she certainly liked to drink I was told). Was that where I got it from?
My journey since then has involved a deeper level of healing and discovery and I am so excited to share this with others to help them 'Heal their mother line' and release what has been passed down to us subconsciously through family secrets, unspoken rules and behavioural patterns leading to dysfunction and mental health struggles.
"Accidentally finding Vanessa was definitely a lucky day for me. Unlike some others,
Vanessa did not channel me into her predetermined route to recovery. She enabled me to
take my own journey, letting go of unhelpful memories and discovering acceptance of the
things that I can’t change. In her calm, non-judgemental way, Vanessa really listened both
to my words and silences. Her suggestions were always helpful and encouraged me to
continue on to the peaceful place I am in now." Gill
"I would recommend this course to anyone that has a challenging relationship with their mother. It has really helped me to build better understanding of the impact of my mother’s behaviour on my own behaviour. This awareness and understanding, together with powerful meditations led by Vanessa, has enabled me to accelerate my own healing journey. Furthermore, the opportunity to share my journey within a safe and understanding group of people with similar experiences, has been an absolute privilege". Mandy
"I can wholly recommend Vanessa’s Healing the Mother line online course… I was at my wits end caring for my elderly mother following my fathers’ death. I was in a cycle of over stretching and compromising myself and feeling so angry and resentful I wanted to scream. The childhood emotional neglect I experienced emerged like a volcano and I was aware this was so harmful to both my spirit and my mums. Vanessa’s course has flowed beautifully… I have managed to journey with each emerging phase of this healing process in a kind and gentle way. This was really important to me as my stress levels were already very high so this nurturing approach was exactly what was needed. I would highly recommend this course to anyone wishing to gain resolution with any painful feelings and blocks in their mother relationship." Jayne
This is for you if...
You struggle with low self value, or unexplained blocked progess in life
You find yourself accepting crumbs in your life, underachieving, and feel unworthy and recognise this is what you have been used to all of your life. You sense that this may be due to some family patterns or generational trauma but you just can not shift that pattern in your life and feel so frustrated with it.
You have patterns in your behaviour you struggle to understand or shift
You have lots of behavioural difficulties and have tried all different ways to address this such as counselling, CBT, placing boundaries and self help but find yourself continuously back in these patterns of behaviour.
You have a strained or difficult relationships
You keep finding yourself in relationships with people who are not beneficial for you even though you don't want to be. Or you know that you people please all the time but simply find it impossible to stop.
What we will explore in this introductory workshop
What is your relationship with your family lineage?
How does this affect you?
What unresolved issues/secrets/difficulties/traumas lie in your family that can be resolved to support you
How to do this.
Can't wait to see you there
Replays may be available dependent on group permission and confidentiality requirements of the group.
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