Healing the Motherline 
"Heal the difficulties you have with your mother , find freedom, inner peace and build your self worth" 
Who is this for? 
This is for men and women who recognise that there were actually some fundamental gaps in the relationship with your mother and you are questioning if you can heal these? 
You may have 
Struggles in your relationship with your mother 
Painful childhood memories that still affect you 
Be a constant people pleaser 
Have difficulty setting boundaries in your life. 
Find yourself in repeated dysfunctional relationships, such as being drawn to narcissistic individuals 
Anger and resentment towards you mother 
Who is this not for? 
Men or women who have a good relationship with their mothers or no difficult childhood memories 
Want to learn about their father's lineage 
Feel that they do not suffer with low self worth at all 
Believe they have their boundaries in place with family 
Do not want to feel uncomfortable in any way and are not ready to explore this.  
What is at the core of your negative self beliefs 
How to release negative internal messages 
How to forgive yourself and your mother 
How to feel into being authentically you.  
It's time to stop the cycle of dysfunction of your mother line and be the one to make changes.  
What you will you get? 
A quietening of your inner critical voice 
Coping skills for your anger and resentment 
Tools to set healthy boundaries and remove yourself from unhealthy family patterns 
Manage your guilt better 
Be able to take care and love your inner child who is so affected and hurt 
Understanding of your resentment and the impact on yourself 
The ability to 'let go' of resentments 
Process your anger and the impact it has on you as well as finding a way to make peace with yourself and your mother (if possible or wanted) 
A decision as to whether forgiveness is possible (it may or may not be) 
All of this IS possible 
Meet Vanessa 
After years of active and chronic addiction I came into recovery in 2001 to be confronted with a whole heap of self love work I needed to do. 
I was terrified of judgement and was a chronic people pleaser.  
I struggled to take risks as I was worried of failure and what people would think. 
My life was limited as a result and I felt frustrated with my inauthenticity. 
Following a life transition into running my own business in 2017 (the business of my dreams) I ventured onto a spiritual path which took me to Australia to a retreat last year. 
There I connected with some of my lineage. I had always been curious about my grandmother who was an alcoholic. Was that where I got it from? 
My journey since then has involved a deeper level of healing and discovery and I am so excited to share this with others to help them 'Heal their mother line' and release what has been passed down to us in dysfunction and mental struggles.  
"I can wholly recommend Vanessa’s Healing the Mother line course… The childhood emotional neglect I experienced emerged like a volcano and I was aware this was so harmful to both my spirit and my mums. Vanessa’s content flows beautifully… I would highly recommend this to anyone wishing to gain resolution with any painful feelings and blocks in their mother relationship" 
Jayne November 2023 
"I would recommend this course to anyone that has a challenging relationship with their mother. It has really helped me to build better understanding of the impact of my mother’s behaviour on my own behaviour. This awareness and understanding, together with powerful meditations led by Vanessa, has enabled me to accelerate my own healing journey."  
Mandy November 2023 

This is for you if...  

You struggle with low self value 

You find yourself accepting 'crumbs' of attention or reward, and recognise this is what you have been used to all of your life. 
You know you have low self esteem but perhaps do not always show it, you may appear confident on the outside and able to 'get on' in the world but the crippling voice of your inner critic is always there tearing you down.  

You identify as a 'people pleaser'  

You keep finding yourself in relationships with people who have narcissitic personalities even though you don't want to be. 
You know that you are always putting other people's needs before your own, disregarding your feelings, thoughts and wants or needs. This has been a lifelong habit and you want to change it once and for all.  

You have a strained or difficult relationship with your mother  

You want to forgive your mother but do not know how, this applies also if she is not longer with us.  
You know you can not forgive your mother but want to find some peace of mind for yourself. 
This is not your ordinary course. 
You will be digging deep, discovering parts of yourself and making peace with those providing you with a real sense of self belief , hope, acceptance and acknowledgement, perhaps for the first time ever.  
How does it work and what's included 
- 3months of live coaching calls (once every 2 weeks) - 7 live calls in total. Tuesdays 6-7.30pm. 
- Lifetime access to course materials, meditations and coaching videos 
Week 1 Remove your inner critic 
Week 2 Inner calm 
Week 3 Your rights putting your needs first 
Week 4 Family systems, roles and cutting the cords 
Week 5 Boundaries and co-dependency 
Week 6 Looking at your geneology 
Week 7 Trauma and letting go 
Week 8 Loving kindness 
Week 9 Self soothing 
Week 10 Working on our anger 
Week 11 Resentments 
Week 12 Forgiveness 
Week 13 Epigenetics 
Week 14 Inner child healing 
Limited time offer until end of April 2024. 
£50 for the course materials without the coaching sessions, please email if you would like to purchase this.  
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