This is for men and women who recognise that there were actually some fundamental gaps in the relationship with your mother and you are questioning if you can heal these?
You may have:
Struggles in your relationship with your mother
Painful childhood memories that still affect you
Be a constant people pleaser
Have difficulty setting boundaries in your life.
Find yourself in repeated dysfunctional relationships, such as being drawn to narcissistic individuals
Anger and resentment towards you mother
Who is this NOT for:
Men or women who have a good relationship with their mothers or no difficult childhood memories
Feel that they do not suffer with low self worth at all
Believe they have their boundaries in place with family
Do not want to feel uncomfortable in any way and are not ready to explore this.
This is for you if...
You struggle with low self value
You find yourself accepting 'crumbs' of attention or reward, and recognise this is what you have been used to all of your life.
You know you have low self esteem but perhaps do not always show it, you may appear confident on the outside and able to 'get on' in the world but the crippling voice of your inner critic is always there tearing you down.
You identify as a "people pleaser"
You keep finding yourself in relationships with people who have narcissitic personalities even though you don't want to be.
You know that you are always putting other people's needs before your own, disregarding your feelings, thoughts and wants or needs. This has been a lifelong habit and you want to change it once and for all.
You have a strained or difficult relationship with your mother
You want to forgive your mother but do not know how, this applies also if she is not longer with us.
OR
You know you can not forgive your mother but want to find some peace of mind for yourself.
It's time to stop the cycle of dysfunction of your mother line and be the one to make changes.
What you will you get?
A quietening of your inner critical voice
Coping skills for your anger and resentment
Tools to set healthy boundaries and remove yourself from unhealthy family patterns
Manage your guilt better
Be able to take care and love your inner child who is so affected and hurt
Understanding of your resentment and the impact on yourself
The ability to 'let go' of resentments
Process your anger and the impact it has on you as well as finding a way to make peace with yourself and your mother (if possible or wanted)
A decision as to whether forgiveness is possible (it may or may not be)
All of this IS possible
What Others Have Shared
Our clients love us, here are a few of their quotes.
"I can wholly recommend Vanessa’s Healing the Mother line course… The childhood emotional neglect I experienced emerged like a volcano and I was aware this was so harmful to both my spirit and my mums. Vanessa’s content flows beautifully… I would highly recommend this to anyone wishing to gain resolution with any painful feelings and blocks in their mother relationship"
Jayne, November 2023
"I would recommend this course to anyone that has a challenging relationship with their mother. It has really helped me to build better understanding of the impact of my mother’s behaviour on my own behaviour. This awareness and understanding, together with powerful meditations led by Vanessa, has enabled me to accelerate my own healing journey."
Mandy, November 2023
