"Solutions for managing your relationship with your Mother without the resentment"

Our relationship with our mothers is one of the most profound connections we experience.

It shapes how we perceive our bodies, our capabilities, and our place in the world.
The mother rift an inherited pain passed down through generations, is a key part of this dynamic. Healing the mother rift isn't about fixing our mothers; it's about embracing ourselves and our unique gifts without shame.

When

June 1-8th 2026

Where

Bury Villa
Gosport
Hampshire
WELCOME TO

The Mother Solution Retreat

The rift may not have started with you—but the healing can.
Your relationship with your mother is one of the first and most formative connections you ever experienced. It shaped how you see yourself. How safe you feel in your body. How you move through relationships, navigate the world, and define your worth.
But what happens when that connection was strained, broken, or never truly formed?
What happens when your sense of safety, validation, and love was conditional, withheld, or simply not available?

What happens is what you're likely still feeling today:

The fear of being judged, even when you're doing your best
Chronic people pleasing and difficulty setting boundaries
A sense of shame that runs deeper than words
Complicated, painful relationships with other women — and with yourself
A pattern of attracting emotionally unavailable or narcissistic partners
Feeling responsible for everyone else's needs but disconnected from your own
Struggling to feel worthy, visible, or "enough"
If any of this resonates, you’re not alone—and you’re not broken.
There’s a name for this.
It’s the motherline wound.
And you have the power to heal it.

This Is Not About Blame.It’s About Liberation.

Healing doesn’t ask us to reject our mothers. It invites us to reclaim ourselves.
The motherline rift is often rooted in emotional abandonment, unmet needs, or generational patterns of silence, control, or enmeshment. It may show up because of a narcissistic parent, an absent one, or one who—through no fault of their own—was simply not able to meet you emotionally.

This retreat is a sanctuary where you can:

Acknowledge the pain without shame
Stop carrying what was never yours to hold
Rewrite the inherited stories that have shaped your life
Reconnect with your own voice, body, and truth
Come home to yourself—on your own terms
This is about you stepping into the woman or man you were always meant to be.
Unapologetically. Unconditionally. Powerfully.

The Healing The Motherline Retreat

A safe space for deep healing, community, and transformation.
This retreat is a space to reconnect with your truth, your power, and your innate wisdom. You will be guided through a gentle, yet powerful, trauma-informed journey to:
Understand the motherline wound and how it has shaped your life
Identify unconscious patterns and survival strategies that no longer serve you
Reclaim your body, boundaries, and self-expression
Explore your inner child and ancestral lineage with compassion
Discover how healing this wound creates lasting shifts in your relationships, work, and sense of purpose
Build tools and rituals for ongoing self-healing
Find peace where there was once pain, clarity where there was confusion, and strength where there was silence
All held within a deeply supportive and nurturing container. You do not have to go through this alone.

Is This Retreat For You?

You may see yourself in some of these experiences:
You had a difficult or strained relationship with your mother growing up—or still do
You constantly prioritize others over yourself
You struggle with self-worth, even when you achieve “success”
You feel disconnected from your body, boundaries, or emotional needs
You’re ready to understand how your past shaped you—but not let it define you
You long for deep, authentic connection with others who truly understand
You’re tired of performing, proving, or pretending
You’re ready to heal the generational patterns passed down through your lineage
This retreat is open to women and men ready to reclaim their wholeness and step into a new legacy—one rooted in compassion, sovereignty, and self-trust.

What You’ll Walk Away With

This retreat is not just a moment of healing—it’s a lifetime shift.
A deep understanding of the motherline effect and how to navigate its impact
A roadmap for healing ancestral trauma and reclaiming your voice
The ability to set boundaries without guilt or fear
Practices to calm the nervous system and regulate your emotions
A renewed sense of self-worth and confidence
Tools for navigating triggers with more awareness
A connection to your intuition, body, and intuition
A safe community of individuals who are experiencing similar to yourself
This isn’t about “fixing” you.
You were never broken

What's Included

A fully immersive, nurturing experience designed to support your healing.
6 days of retreat time, 5 days constellations and workshops, one day of down time/personal reflection
All workshops, healing circles, and guided constellations practices
Somatic movement, Qoya.
Nourishing meals, snacks, and refreshments supplied by https://funkyplantbasedfoods.com
Safe space for personal reflection, group connection, and 1:1 support
Restorative practices to ground and calm your nervous system
Tools you can take home with you for ongoing healing
Surprise gifts and extras to support you
Reflection and integration day in nature
You’ll leave not only transformed...
But held, seen, and empowered.
This deep inner work heals the trauma and conditioning passed down through generations, clearing ancestral lines and paving the way for future generations. This retreat allows you to release what has held you back and to express your true nature and spirit.

What Is QOYA?

Qoya Inspired Movement is an embodiment practice that weaves together thirteen different pillars to welcome all aspects of ourselves, bringing mind, body, heart and soul into awareness. Qoya classes are a place to strengthen our inherent resilience, rest in our essence and remember we are wise, wild and free.
In these times of accelerated transformation and change, each of us is being asked to find the ways that we can best meet this moment. In class, we explore healing and nourishing ourselves in community so that we can bring our best selves to our daily lives in service to the co-creation of a more just and equitable world.

Our Retreat Venue

Our retreat house is a delightful and serene sanctuary. As you step foot into the idyllic setting, you will instantly be greeted by a sense of tranquillity and inner peace.
Bury Villa is a Geogian house with character and style. The main venue is a haven of comfort, boasting inviting en-suite guest rooms, communal dining areas, and a spacious workshop area.
You will be able to savour the essence of home-cooked, nourishing vegan meals, each day.
It is of utmost importance to us that each and every guest feels a warm sense of belonging and connection; thus, we place great emphasis on the joyous act of uniting as a community to share a delightful meal with all the remarkable souls who grace our presence.

This Is Your Invitation to Break The Cycle

You do not have to carry the weight of unspoken pain anymore.
You do not have to shrink to make others comfortable.
You do not have to keep abandoning yourself to feel loved.
You are worthy. You are worthy of peace. You are worthy of joy.
HEALING THE MOTHERLINE is more than a retreat. It’s a turning point.
And this moment—right here—is your invitation to step through.

Healing The Motherline Retreat Itinery

* This schedule may be subject to some slight changes.

Meet Your Hosts

Your retreat is led by experienced facilitators who bring years of trauma-informed, therapeutic, somatic, and energetic wisdom to the space. We are not here to “fix” you—we are here to walk beside you as you reclaim what was always yours.
Together, we hold the vision for your wholeness, your safety, and your power.

Meet Vanessa

I am a qualified psychotherapist, coach, practicing for nearly two decades now. In 2022 I became a best selling author with my book 'The REBEL method.
After years of active and chronic addiction I came into recovery in 2001 to be confronted with a whole heap of self esteem work I needed to do.
I was terrified of judgement and was a chronic people pleaser. I had no boundaries in my life with others or with myself.
There were abandonment issues from my childhood which I needed to work through. My life was limited as a result and I felt frustrated at my inability to find authentic meaning in my life.
Following a life transition into running my own business in 2017 (the business of my dreams) I ventured onto a spiritual path which took me to Australia to a retreat in 2022 with a money mindset coach.
There I connected with some of my lineage. I had always been curious about my grandmother who was an alcoholic. Was that where I got it from?
My journey since then has involved a deeper level of healing and discovery and I am so excited to share this with others to help them 'Heal their mother line' and release what has been passed down to us in dysfunction and struggles due to the restrictions that have been placed on women for so many years.

Meet Tania

I spent years living from fear, self-doubt, and a sense of not being enough.
I learned early to look outside myself for validation — to seek approval, attention and acceptance from others because inside I didn’t feel safe, worthy, or steady. That pattern showed up in relationships, in my own inner voice, and in the ways I learned to survive rather than thrive.
What I’ve come to understand is that those struggles were not just mine. They were shaped long before I was born, carried in the ways my family loved, protected, and adapted to trauma. Generational patterns were not something to fix. They were invitations to be met, witnessed and finally released so life could open in ways I never thought possible.
My healing shifted when I began to work with my ancestors, my body, and my nervous system together. I learned to love myself not as a concept but as a felt reality. I learned to trust my instincts, to lean into uncertainty with curious steadiness, and to meet my own courage every time fear showed up. What was once a shadow became a source of grounding. What was once survival became capacity to choose.
Today I stand in my own life as the person who holds space for women to see themselves without shame, pressure or performance. I work in a way that is body-led, trauma-aware, and rooted in how lived experience and inherited family narratives shape identity, belonging, worth, and leadership. I am not here to “fix” you. I am here to walk with you as you uncover what was never yours to carry and return to yourself with clarity and strength.
If you have felt the impact of generational patterns in your relationships, your sense of worth, or the way you show up in life, I’m here to walk alongside you. This work has changed my life and I am honoured to support others who are ready to meet their own truth and step into lives that feel like home from the inside out.

What Others Have Shared

Our clients love us, here are a few of their quotes.
“I came away from the retreat feeling really turned on about my life! Finally letting go of the guilt, and the realisation that my life is a gift.”
“I felt amazing after the retreat. I loved connecting with the other people that attended. The experience has totally changed my life!”
“I came to this retreat after feeling quite lonely — I’ve been back in the UK and on my own a lot. I needed connection, but I didn’t realise just how much I needed to be witnessed.
Hearing everyone’s stories made me feel less alone. It cracked something open. I realised how many of us are carrying similar ancestral threads — and how healing it is to name them.
I had moments of self-doubt. Guilt surfaced around my grandmother, realising I hadn’t always honoured her pain. But I’m leaving that guilt here. I’m not taking home the burden. I’m taking the insight. The clarity. The power to shift how I relate.
I’ve been trying to get people to give me what I needed… but what I really needed was already inside me.
I’m leaving here softer, stronger, and more rooted in me. Not in their expectations. Not in old stories. Just me.”
"It gave me space in my head and heart, and I let go of a weight. I’m now open to what could happen next and not be lead by fear."
"A really special retreat, the group, the space, it was really magical!"
“I found the inner critic and inner child work most beneficial, I felt like I really broke some ground, and am now implementing some new healthy habits to help identify who I am.”
"I was able to let go of expectations, and anger after doing the constellations work."
"The retreat provided a secure environment that fostered comfort and encouraged exploration of the necessary steps for healing."
“I especially loved the inner child workshop, and the realisation that self-care isn't selfish, its essential. Everyone should attend a retreat!”

Own room cost £1500
Shared room (2 People) cost £1000pp
Shared room (3 people) cost £700, bunk beds £650
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