Reclaiming Authentic You, Overcoming Family Entanglements and Dysfunction Retreat Part of Healing the Motherline Theme  

The Significance of the Family Bond 

Our relationship with our families is one of the most profound connections we experience. It shapes how we perceive our bodies, our capabilities, and our place in the world. Childhood wounds and abandonments can be inherited pain passed down through generations, and is a key part of this dynamic. Reclaiming our authentic power isn't about fixing our families or childhood histories; it's about embracing ourselves and our unique gifts without shame. 

 

 

This disconnect we feel as a result of trauma growing up or dysfunction in our families can affect many aspects of our lives:  Our self-image and body confidence. Our relationships and friendships with others and at work. Our fears of being seen or judged. Our tendencies towards codependency or enmeshment. Our ability to trust others and life itself. Our experiences of abandonment or attachment. Our beliefs about money and abundance. Our capacity for healthy, loving romantic relationships. 

The Power of Collective Healing 

Healing is a transformative journey, where acknowledging our wounds our inner child and our inner critics allows us to see ourselves as human and fallible. This process enables you to rewrite old narratives, cultivate self-trust, recognize your intrinsic worth, and shine brightly. 
 
When we come together to share our experiences, it becomes clear that our struggles are not unique. This shared understanding helps to dissolve layers of shame and fosters a powerful community healing environment. 
 
We provide a safe, sacred space throughout our time together on the retreat, for you to transform from pain into a wellspring of wisdom. 

What You'll Gain from Attending 

In this transformative retreat, you will: 
 
Understand the nature of the family dynamic and its impact on your life. 
Follow a clear roadmap for the healing journey. 
Discover how this healing can propel your personal and professional growth. 
Access tools and resources for ongoing healing, such as family constellations, inner critic, inner child work, and boundaries workshops. 
 
Within our nurturing and safe environment, built on trust, connection, and respect, you can openly share and work through your most challenging issues and painful experiences at your own pace. This space is designed to hold and support your healing journey, as you explore and discover your true self among a community that values vulnerability and honesty. 
 
 
 
Trauma can be at the root of depression and anxiety disorders and this retreat will give you the opportunity to explore the trauma brought on by your upbringing and your difficult relationships or experiences in childhood, currently or any ancestral trauma that has been brought down through the family. 
 
Together, we will explore the path towards freeing yourself from the roles in your family system, the chronic people pleasing, and the feelings of disconnection and resentment that hold you back. Let us guide you in rediscovering your innate ability to effortlessly find the peace you so deserve. 
 
Through engaging in both group and individual exercises, you will embark on a transformative journey where you will uncover fresh pathways to embrace your genuine self and unleash your true potential. This empowering experience will pave the way for you to embrace your inner strength and evolve into the incredible person you were always destined to become in every aspect of your life. 

A Sanctuary for Healing 

For those who have endured trauma, constantly bracing for the next challenge takes a toll. This retreat offers a sanctuary where you can finally relax and shed your protective armour. It's a safe space to heal, grow, and reclaim the spirit you were born with. This retreat helps you remember and celebrate your inherent self-worth. Within a supportive and respectful community, you can explore and heal your most challenging issues at your own pace. Our environment values vulnerability and honesty, fostering deep personal growth. 

When You Reclaim Authentic You and Overcome Family Entanglements and Dysfunction 

You open up the space to be your true self. You grant yourself the freedom to become the person you are meant to be. 
 
In this retreat, you will learn to: 
 
Communicate and express yourself authentically. 
Release negative thoughts, feelings, and labels. 
Free yourself from others' expectations. 
See triggers as opportunities for healing. 
Value being over doing. 
Embrace your vulnerability as a strength. 
Trust your intuition and connect deeply with your mind, body, and spirit. 
Deepen your connection to the Earth and its magic. 
 
 
This deep inner work heals the trauma and conditioning passed down through generations, clearing ancestral lines and paving the way for future generations. This retreat allows you to release what has held you back and to express your true nature and spirit. 

Is Reclaiming Authentic You, Overcoming Family Entanglements and Dysfunction Retreat For You? 

Each of us faces unique circumstances that impact us individually. Do you relate to any or a few of the following issues? 
 
Painful childhood memories that still affect you 
Struggles in your relationship with your mother or father 
.Constantly people pleasing 
Difficulty setting boundaries in your life. 
Engaging in dysfunctional relationships, such as being drawn to narcissistic individuals 
Engaging in behaviours that you are aware are not beneficial for your well-being 
Anger and resentment. 
 
If any of these resonate with you, and you are ready to break free from the inherited shame and self-doubt. Ready to build a foundation of deep self-nurturance, and reconnect with your inner wisdom and soul, you will love this retreat filled with connection, support, learning, growth, and nourishment. 

Our Retreat Venues 

Our retreat houses are delightful and serene sanctuaries. As you step foot into the idyllic setting, you will instantly be greeted by a sense of tranquillity and inner peace. 
 
The main venue is a haven of comfort, boasting inviting en-suite guest rooms, communal dining areas, and a spacious workshop area. 
 
You will be able to savour the essence of nourishing meals, each day, as you bask in the magnificent beauty of the surrounding nature and grounds. 
 
It is of utmost importance to us that each and every guest feels a warm sense of belonging and connection; thus, we place great emphasis on the joyous act of uniting as a community to share a delightful meal with all the remarkable souls who grace our presence. 
Each retreat includes: 
 
Lunch 
Morning meditations and grounding exercises to prepare our nervous systems for the healing work 
Therapeutic workshops 
Ancestral healing 
Creative healing activities 
Workshops on boundaries and changing dysfunctional life patterns 
Family systems and constellations workshop 
Inner child work 
Inner critic and boundaries work 
Self-reflection time 
Walks in nature (optional) 
Sauna, jacuzzi and pool (dependent on venue) 

MEET YOUR HOST 

Hi, I'm Vanessa. 
 
After years of active and chronic addiction I came into recovery in 2001 to be confronted with a whole heap of self esteem work I needed to do. 
 
I was terrified of judgement and was a chronic people pleaser. I had no boundaries in my life with others or with myself. There were abandonment issues from my childhood which I needed to work through. My life was limited as a result and I felt frustrated at my inability to find authentic meaning in my life. 
 
Following a life transition into running my own business in 2017 (the business of my dreams) I ventured onto a spiritual path which took me to Australia to a retreat last year. There I connected with some of my lineage. I had always been curious about my grandmother who was an alcoholic. Was that where I got it from? 
 
My journey since then has involved a deeper level of healing and discovery and I am so excited to share this with others to help them 'Heal their ancestral lines' and release what has been passed down to us in dysfunction and mental struggles due to the trauma and shame. 

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Reclaiming Authentic You, Overcoming Family Entanglements and Dysfunction Retreat  

This retreat will run again in Autumn 2025, but if you are looking for something similar, do check out our Healing the Motherline retreats. Click HERE to read more 
 
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