Healing the Motherline
"How to heal the difficult relationship I have with my mother without causing more damage"
Free Live Master class, recorded with replay available.
19th November 10am.
Who is this for?
This is for men and women who have started to recognise through therapy or through a caring role for their mothers that there were actually some fundamental gaps in the relationship and you are questioning if you can heal these?
Who is this not for?
This is not for men or women who have a good relationship with their mothers.
Want to learn about their father's lineage
Feel that they do not suffer with low self worth
Feel they have their boundaries in place
Do not want to feel uncomfortable in any way and would rather stay in denial that there is some healing to be done.
It's time to stop the cycle of dysfunction of your mother line and be the one to make changes.
What you will come away with?
A decision as to whether forgiveness is possible (it may or may not be)
Understanding of your resentment and the impact on yourself, you will be 'letting go' of these resentments
Processing anger and the impact it has on you as well as finding a way to make peace with yourself and Mum (if possible)
I can't wait to facilitate this transformative work with you
After years of active and chronic addiction I came into recovery in 2001 to be confronted with a whole heap of self love work I needed to do.
I was terrified of judgement and was a chronic people pleaser.
I struggled to take risks as I was worried of failure and what people would think.
My life was limited as a result and I felt frustrated with my inauthenticity.
Following a life transition into running my own business in 2017 (the business of my dreams) I ventured onto a spiritual path which took me to Australia to a retreat last year.
There I connected with some of my lineage. I had always been curious about my grandmother who was an alcoholic. Was that where I got it from?
My journey since then has involved a deeper level of healing and discovery and I am so excited to share this with others to help them 'Heal their mother line' and release what has been passed down to us in dysfunction and mental struggles due to the restrictions that have been placed on women for so many years.
"Accidentally finding Vanessa was definitely a lucky day for me. Unlike some others,
Vanessa did not channel me into her predetermined route to recovery. She enabled me to
take my own journey, letting go of unhelpful memories and discovering acceptance of the
things that I can’t change. In her calm, non-judgemental way, Vanessa really listened both
to my words and silences. Her suggestions were always helpful and encouraged me to
continue on to the peaceful place I am in now." Gill
This is for you if...
You struggle with low self value
You find yourself accepting crumbs of attention or reward, and recognise this is what you have been used to all of your life
You identify as a 'people pleaser'
You keep finding yourself in relationships with people who have narcissitic personalities even though you don't want to be
You have a strained or difficult relationship with your mother
You want to forgive your mother but do not know how, this applies also if she is not longer with us.
This is not your ordinary masterclass.
You will be digging deep, discovering parts of yourself and making peace with those providing you with a real sense of self belief , hope, acceptance and acknowledgement, perhaps for the first time ever.